What type of person are you? As for me, I tend to lean more towards an “E”, which is characterized by being exceptionally outgoing and lively, particularly in public or professional settings. However, certain environments can induce a peculiar and uncomfortable atmosphere, sometimes transforming me into an “I”. For instance, when I find myself alone seeking a table at a crowded coffee shop with a long queue at the cashier, I typically queue up to place my order first before searching for an available seat. The introverted side of me may feel apprehensive about making eye contact with others while scouting for a table solo. The surrounding environment can provoke nervousness and shyness.
Benefit:
Being an extroverted individual facilitates easy friendships and leaves a positive impression on others.
Being an Introverted person, will mostly stick around with the same old friends and be shy around others. Nevertheless, this personality type tends to be more dependable and trustworthy to their inner circle due to their inclination to keep secrets well.
Introvert:
- Proficient at handling tasks and living independently without encountering significant obstacles.
- Frequently embarks on solitary ‘pack and go’ trips, also known as ‘solo travel’.
- Demonstrates independence and reluctance to open up to others readily.
- Exhibits a calm, modest, and reserved demeanor.
- Might struggle to appreciate humor and may not excel as a presenter in front of large crowds but can be effective with smaller groups.
Extrovert:
- Easily forms connections with people across various situations, especially in professional and social environments.
- Often seeks attention and tends to be easily distracted.
- Occasionally receives discounts or extra perks from establishments when making requests.
- In professional settings, clients, vendors, and partners are inclined to engage more with the most talkative and outgoing individual within a team.
- When traveling alone, extroverts tend to forge new friendships effortlessly and are more likely to approach strangers for photographs.
- Some extroverts may exhibit impatience, occasionally leading to issues when rushing to complete tasks at work.
In our society, both introverts and extroverts can be sensitive to various factors. What prompts individuals to deviate from their typical activities and behaviors can vary widely, influenced by numerous unpredictable and unseen circumstances that unfold in daily life. Pressures may arise unexpectedly, disrupting our routines without prior notice. For instance, a career like that of a 911 dispatcher, which entails managing numerous emergencies and unpredictable calls daily, is inherently stressful and may not suit everyone. However, individuals working in such roles, whether introverted or extroverted in their personal lives, must maintain composure under all circumstances while on duty.
Are you the most outgoing extrovert within your circle of friends?
Or are you the most introverted individual among your social circle?
Bo Chow 